Reasons Why People Say I Hate AA

By Jerry Ross


The primary purpose of alcoholic anonymous is to help addicts stay sober and to help those starting the journey to achieve sobriety. The studies have shown improvement by some member while other studies have shown negative results and most of these members say I hate AA. The meetings depend on donations from members and other people. It is usually carried out in various institutions such as hospitals and correctional facilities.

The gatherings have become unpopular nowadays and most of the participants have withdrawn from the groups. New associates have also stopped enrolling to the meeting. This occurred because most followers have had bad experiences during the period that they were trying to recover as a result of these summits. The seminars have given a chance to sexual predators to abuse women. Female adherents have reported sexual abuse and harassment during these assemblies.

The groups are made of people who condemn and critique those who relapse instead of supporting them. They do not practice empathy and might end up causing addicts to give up. This is mostly because the crowd is ruled by those clients who were once addicts. They lack the skills and qualities needed while helping an individual who is struggling with the situation.

At the groups there are people with various characteristics and motives. The decision to attend the support group is personal. This helps in ensuring that those who attend the consultations go there with the aim of recovering. However, this is not usually the case for members because some individuals participate in get-together to avoid punishments.

This meeting can make individuals to feel that they are doing work or they work toward recovery. While in the real sense they just attend meetings. Additionally, on completion of three months, they may go back to drinking since they were not equipped with any skills to help them achieve recovery. Most work is left for the individual to research and practice.

Although the meetings are anonymous, individuals are required to introduce themselves by their names before they are allowed to speak. This has made many folks to avoid sharing their issues so that they can evade mentioning who they are especially those members who do not want to be known. The process of treatment is tedious. That is after periods of hearing different stories it stops being interesting.

Peer influence may cause participants to be more addicted rather than attaining recovery. This encourages relapse more than recovery. The addicts can be introduced to easy and cheaper places of acquiring the substance hence encouraging them to continue using. Most of these consultations are conducted by recovering addicts who have no expertise in this field. Thus, adherents are not helped to deal with the underlying reason thus chances of relapse are high.

The meeting takes at least ninety days where an individual is required to attend the sessions daily for three months. This is time-consuming and requires an individual to dedicate his or her time. This means that individuals will be forced to forgo their other duties so as to create time for consultation. This has made most many members to stop attending the gatherings.




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