Where does confidence come from? Is it something you are just born with or are we able to create confidence over a period of time? Yes, some individuals just appear to have it. But as someone who had it, lost it completely, and had to build it all back from scratch, I'm going to say you can do some pretty interesting things with building some iron confidence in your life.
Maybe you have none in your life at the moment, or perhaps you just need some more because you know how much it would aid you with making decisions. But actually, where does this confidence come from? There are these little things I love to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long-lasting confidence comes from the process of sweating the details, the small stuff, the things that people frequently overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You start to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of life's magic. You see, when you actually nail the tiny stuff, the huge things become more possible. It's when we try to go for the gigantic goal without having the integrity of concentrating on the small things that really set us up for failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take a little bit of time to focus on the practicable measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for bigger and bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a gentle step back down and refocus on what you can achieve, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards real success. In fact, the quantum leap is exactly what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of folks get put off when they try something big in life and fail. In reality most people will try something 3 times and then give up totally. But if you build some serious momentum, you will have the confidence to try something over and again and again until you get it 100% right.
Isn't that a much more fun way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are incredibly capable of wonderful things.
But first, you must sweat the little stuff.
Maybe you have none in your life at the moment, or perhaps you just need some more because you know how much it would aid you with making decisions. But actually, where does this confidence come from? There are these little things I love to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long-lasting confidence comes from the process of sweating the details, the small stuff, the things that people frequently overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You start to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of life's magic. You see, when you actually nail the tiny stuff, the huge things become more possible. It's when we try to go for the gigantic goal without having the integrity of concentrating on the small things that really set us up for failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take a little bit of time to focus on the practicable measure of your life, and over the course of time start going for bigger and bigger goals. What if you fail? Take a gentle step back down and refocus on what you can achieve, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards real success. In fact, the quantum leap is exactly what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of folks get put off when they try something big in life and fail. In reality most people will try something 3 times and then give up totally. But if you build some serious momentum, you will have the confidence to try something over and again and again until you get it 100% right.
Isn't that a much more fun way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are incredibly capable of wonderful things.
But first, you must sweat the little stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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