Relaxing In Uncertainty

By Evan Sanders


There's really no such thing as certainty. It's all uncertain.

Truth be told, uncertainty is absolutely helpful in teaching you lessons however. When you live in a world stuffed with uncertainty, you give yourself the opportunity to live in full and deep possibility and be truly happy. Those two realities come together. When you start to try to separate yourself from uncertainty by restricting what your future is going to appear like, that's truly when you can really begin to get into a dash of discomfort. As much fun as that is to do, you become deeply out of touch with reality and distance yourself from individuals that are here at this time. There's little worse than living in a spot that you can not actually go to, and hence, missing out on all that is really happening right now.

That is my story.

Living in the future and neglecting the present.

Not that this way of doing things was a distressing thing all of the time, although it was out of balance with the deep underlying feeling of desiring connection with others. I knew that I required that connection, so I had to begin making some changes. I think the balance of where hopes and objectives lie with a person who has great ambitions is that they must ...and should... appreciate what they have now, be the person who they see in the future at the moment, and learn truly, that the future is only going to be a representation of deep purpose of what is occurring in their life right this moment.

My problem was that I looked at the future as a spot where it might all turn out and everything would be OK. Wrong. You have to be O.K with what is happening today. When you can truly live in the moment and let the uncertainty of the future handle itself, happiness creeps in.

Learn to tap into this moment and appreciate it for what it is. That is all we're able to do right?

Uncertainty is the name of the game.




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