Love is the most complex things that people are often involved in. Whether you are a young person looking for love or a grown-up looking for the actual companionship that come with it, you will always consider the question: Is this the type of love I am worth? Is there a better kind of love I can get?
In many aspects of our lives, we give love and we get love. For some people, they think that we get the love that we think we deserve while for others love is a measure of pure fate and destiny. But what if it is not merely a measure of fate? What if you get the love you deserve by actually working for it and visualizing it in your life? What are the things that you should do to get that love? There are three ways and they are listed below.
First accept your beliefs about fate and throw all of this in the garbage. Yes! You are the logical type while deep down you know that you still believe that you want that there be someone in existence for you and it is particularly only a matter of time until you match that special particular person. Stop pretending and accept there is no destiny but there is definitely a couple of choices mixed collectively that will send you to where you fit in.
Love is not a matter of who was created for you, love is who you decide to love and who decides to love you. It is a matter of conscious choices based on the standards set by society and your own perception of who you should end up with.
Second, accept that on one point or another, your past relationships were there for a reason. It taught you something and on one point you were happy and you were in love. Keep in mind that you loved that person in the past, accept that stuff you loved about that person for and be aware that some things are just not worth fighting for.
Finally, visualize yourself with that special person. What could happen when you meet that person? What are the things about you that you might change and that you are willing to change in order for you to be one step closer to your idea of a perfect person? What are things that you should do for getting on the circle from the person you like? Come up with a list and prepare in order to answer each question.
Love is not about a person having the ability to accept you for who you might be. At the start everything is beautiful but when you finally show the other area of you, changing oneself becomes inevitable. Now, in case you are in a relationship already and there are also parts of that person that you would like to change, ask yourself this: If I ask my partner to switch things about him/her, are there things that I am prepared to change for him/her? Will it all be worth it?
Know your limitations when it comes to "trying to be better". At the end of the day, you should end up with someone who will not try to change you. You deserve to end up with someone who you are willing to change for because when the change comes from within, that is the only time that you can really appreciate what you have.
In many aspects of our lives, we give love and we get love. For some people, they think that we get the love that we think we deserve while for others love is a measure of pure fate and destiny. But what if it is not merely a measure of fate? What if you get the love you deserve by actually working for it and visualizing it in your life? What are the things that you should do to get that love? There are three ways and they are listed below.
First accept your beliefs about fate and throw all of this in the garbage. Yes! You are the logical type while deep down you know that you still believe that you want that there be someone in existence for you and it is particularly only a matter of time until you match that special particular person. Stop pretending and accept there is no destiny but there is definitely a couple of choices mixed collectively that will send you to where you fit in.
Love is not a matter of who was created for you, love is who you decide to love and who decides to love you. It is a matter of conscious choices based on the standards set by society and your own perception of who you should end up with.
Second, accept that on one point or another, your past relationships were there for a reason. It taught you something and on one point you were happy and you were in love. Keep in mind that you loved that person in the past, accept that stuff you loved about that person for and be aware that some things are just not worth fighting for.
Finally, visualize yourself with that special person. What could happen when you meet that person? What are the things about you that you might change and that you are willing to change in order for you to be one step closer to your idea of a perfect person? What are things that you should do for getting on the circle from the person you like? Come up with a list and prepare in order to answer each question.
Love is not about a person having the ability to accept you for who you might be. At the start everything is beautiful but when you finally show the other area of you, changing oneself becomes inevitable. Now, in case you are in a relationship already and there are also parts of that person that you would like to change, ask yourself this: If I ask my partner to switch things about him/her, are there things that I am prepared to change for him/her? Will it all be worth it?
Know your limitations when it comes to "trying to be better". At the end of the day, you should end up with someone who will not try to change you. You deserve to end up with someone who you are willing to change for because when the change comes from within, that is the only time that you can really appreciate what you have.
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