An Honest Take On Self Help

By Evan Sanders


If we decide to finally let go of what we think we need to be, we give ourselves the chance to become who we were meant to be.

The society we have grown up in has taught us this story that we should be much more than we are comfortable in being.

Our world has us believing that we have to live up to standards that actually can't be lived up to. The perfect body, relationship, look, hair, lifestyle and everything else you could possibly imagine.

These things that we are fed are constantly telling us that we aren't good enough and that we have to purchase this or that to become something better.

The truth is, you have these incredible gifts that if you unlocked them you could amaze the world. But the first thing you have to do is take off the mask you've been wearing your entire life.

It's a hell of a lot easier to be who you are instead of always trying to be someone else.

That may sound counterintuitive, but once you drop all of the nonsense that has been fed to you throughout your entire life you end up being pretty happy with yourself as a person. This doesn't mean that you don't have areas to grow - we all do - but rather it's a strong vote for how unique we all are.

In truth, that's the only way that lasting and sustainable change occurs.

The reason why most people fail in their goals is because they don't actually believe in what they are doing.

Their reasons for heading into significant amount of discomfort aren't supported by any strong will and they will find themselves failing over and over again.

If you are going to dive into all of this, you have to make sure you're doing it for yourself.

Love and appreciate the things, people, and life that you have right now.

Have faith in where you are at and if you want something different for yourself, go out there and create it.

Dive into it because it's something that you want to do and it's something that will make you incredibly proud. That's a life that you can be happy about.

In the end, if we stay true to our own paths and believe in ourselves, we are truly capable of anything.




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