Relationships And Reshaping Your Life

By Janet Olson


Life has so many twists and turns and it seems at best impossible to keep up with the demands of it. Reshaping your life is not such an easy task as it is always difficult to make those changes that one knows one should. There are just so many facets in life and one after the other needs to be addressed in order to live the best one possible.

Finding true happiness is something that can be as elusive as finding that right person to partner with. It takes introspection and listening to that inner voice that knows intuitively what is right for the person and that which is not. A person should take the time during the day to sit down for a while and be in a silent environment where one can just be with no distractions present.

Then there are relationship problems or ones that are just not going the way one foresaw. Time and again many get locked into relationships that are not healthy for the fear of losing that person and moving on. If the relationship is stagnating or just an unhealthy one then ways must be found and explored or in the worst case scenario, cut ties and get on with it.

They can become convenient and while this is so, one still feels that something is lacking. This is usually love and not feeling cared for in the relationship especially if one is the one that always has to make the effort to do chores, clean up, make up the beds and many more tasks that go with living together. This can frustrate a person especially when a partner does not reciprocate and leaves the housework to the other.

This is why it is so important to keep communication channels open and to find ways to make relationships exciting, loving, caring and nurturing. When feeling neglected this often goes unheard until a fight breaks out and one finds oneself wanting some sort of outlet. It is best at times such as these to seek professional counsellors to help with problems such as these.

If one feels that things are just flowing from one day into the next and boredom sets in, it is time to make changes. Feeling apathetic is not a good sign that one is living it to the fullest and action is needed immediately. A person knows what those changes should be but taking them and implementing them is often neglected.

The spark just seems to fade away and with time a person wonders what they are still doing with his or her partner. Relationships as they say take work and it is best to try and keep as in touch with the next just as it was when it started. Time must be set aside to do the things that are loved to be done thus keeping it exciting and new.

Making the changes is not easy as this means stepping out of comfort zone. Slow steps must be taken in order to bring about change and with it a new lease on life. It is something that is both rewarding and empowering in find oneself once again happy with the way things are going.




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