Why Am I So Unhappy With Myself Most Of The Time

By Charles Ross


People get upset and unhappy with themselves all the time. However, when people begin to get obsessed as thoughts enter their heads which are mostly negative and when they drag on, it is important to seek professional help. Folks often start asking, why am I so unhappy with myself.

When this drags on for more than two weeks and you are still feeling out of sorts, you need to take action. When you neglect these feelings, you will find that it can be draining and exhausting. You will develop other problems. One can develop a little depression because of something that happens in their lives. This turns into a sense of low confidence and a low self esteem.

You may find that you are not happy because you have become depressed or anxious. There are people who have been walking around, feeling out of the ordinary with a change in behaviour for a really long time. Sometimes, you feel stuck in life and not having the courage to take the challenge to take the next step.

It can be easier to stay in your comfort zone, and continue with a routine which is very monotonous. It takes a lot of courage to make the next move. However, it will help you in the long run. A therapist will help you to get to this point so you are able to face your fears. Often, it is difficult to face your fears because of what you have been though in the past.

People sometimes just accept their fate. They realize that they have had a bad time, and there is nothing that they can do about this. They feel that they simply have to put up with whatever is thrown in their direction. For example, there are still people who come back from the battlefield and decide just to stay strong.

Continuing with this sort of lifestyle where you begin to escape from your unhappy emotions and feelings and develop addictions, can cause so many other problems. Eventually, other psychological problems will develop as well. Once you come down from your high, you will be in the same position where you feel alone, overwhelmed and stuck in that place.

They find out how they are able to become more alive without the use of alcohol or drugs. As they are guided by the therapist, they learn to get into a more healthy lifestyle, which doesn't include obsessions or other forms of escape. Over this time, folks begin to become fulfilled in other ways by connecting with people who are inspiring and by being involved in activities which are creative.

It is not easy to love other people when you can't love yourself, and this is what the therapist will help you with. It is the self talk which makes the situation worse. Often, it is only the individual who tells themselves that they are worse off than they actually are. This is due to negative thoughts in their mind, and this needs to be reversed.




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