Learning From Those Living The Empowered Lifestyles

By Mary Johnson


People usually gravitate to the individuals who are so enthusiastic about their lives and who seem so cool and collective even though everything around them is already collapsing. These people are not like that simply because they are living the good life or because nothing fazes them. These people are like that because they live empowered lifestyles wherein they know what is in their reach and what is not.

Now, the first thing to know about people like these is that they are self motivated meaning that they do not need any outside factor to motivate them to do anything. Basically, once one has already developed the mindset that he can do anything he wants as long as he wants to put his head to it, then this will be the first step of empowerment. With this mindset, one will no longer look outward for motivation but rather inward.

With this mindset comes action to do something. People who empower themselves never stop learning different skills as they know that this will help them elevate themselves further. They will keep on learning new things that they think will help them make their lives better than it already is.

One other trait that these people have in common is that they hardly give any care about what the people around them think about them. If there is a person who dislikes them, they do not really pay attention to that person and just move on with their own lives. The reason and logic behind this is simply because they know that they do not have to please everyone and that in itself is empowering.

Of course, they still do take into consideration what people tell them. The difference would be that they are selective as to what information they process because they know that not all information is useful in their lives. With this, they know how to screen out which information will be beneficial to them and which ones will not be.

Another trait that these people would exhibit would be their enthusiasm about pretty much everything in life. They are seen to be very enthusiastic and very energetic about what they do and how their life is no matter how bad in shape they are. They are not annoyingly optimistic neither are they downers. Rather, they are realistic about life and know what can be controlled.

Last of all, these type of people seem to be as cool as a cucumber pretty much all the time. This is because they know how to control the situation by focusing more on a solution than on a problem. They do not see the whole point of stressing over anything because they know that anything can be solved if something is actually done.

Basically, empowering oneself is not about reading a book or being riled up by charismatic speakers. It is about accepting life the way it is and taking control of it. The only way to empower is to take the power from any type of situation and use it to an advantage for a gain.




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