To write about what happened to you or to talk about things like your rape is not an easy thing to do, you require a lot of courage to do so. It is very hard to deal with this situation and getting out from this problem is almost impossible and yet it was the most horrible thing ever happened but still you should always remember that rape doesnt define me
It may be the case that he took you out for a date and that night wound up with taking without end the most valuable thing from you. It may be the case that even after the episode you would need to encounter a similar individual again particularly in the event that he was your companion or associate.
This is a true story of a girl and after that incident she started avoiding going in campus dining halls and gym because that person used to be there and she wanted to avoid him as much as she could. Her life was just revolving around how to avoid that assaulter and she started to compromise her schedules and quality because of that person. After she got raped she was unable to trust men around her.
In the beginning she started avoiding to go to university and she used to hide here and there so she cannot face that person and tried to avoid going in dining halls and gym because he used to be over there. It was kind of like a hide and seek game for a couple of months.
You feel like you cannot cope up with the world anymore and its hard for you to return back to your normal day to day routine.`` Since you can't give anybody authorization to take control over you life and exacerbate it for you.
That girl began going to the places she was avoiding before and decided to go to gym where he used to come and then started facing that person rather than running away from that place because she wanted to show him that she's strong enough and can deal with this situation. All these little steps were very helpful for her to get her life back on track.
Till this day, there are people who want to keep this topic hushed away and they think if such problem comes out in open, it will not be a good thing. The fact its, with time people are becoming more intelligent and they like talking about problems and issues so you should try to contribute as much as you can.
It can take a very long time for you to recount your story after such an episode yet you ought to never feel embarrassed about yourself since it was not something that happened as a result of you or you were not to blame. You will experience numerous stages of recovery and there will be a time when you would start to learn and trust others all over again. Assault can't characterize your identity it was only a terrible incident or even of your life however its over now.
It may be the case that he took you out for a date and that night wound up with taking without end the most valuable thing from you. It may be the case that even after the episode you would need to encounter a similar individual again particularly in the event that he was your companion or associate.
This is a true story of a girl and after that incident she started avoiding going in campus dining halls and gym because that person used to be there and she wanted to avoid him as much as she could. Her life was just revolving around how to avoid that assaulter and she started to compromise her schedules and quality because of that person. After she got raped she was unable to trust men around her.
In the beginning she started avoiding to go to university and she used to hide here and there so she cannot face that person and tried to avoid going in dining halls and gym because he used to be over there. It was kind of like a hide and seek game for a couple of months.
You feel like you cannot cope up with the world anymore and its hard for you to return back to your normal day to day routine.`` Since you can't give anybody authorization to take control over you life and exacerbate it for you.
That girl began going to the places she was avoiding before and decided to go to gym where he used to come and then started facing that person rather than running away from that place because she wanted to show him that she's strong enough and can deal with this situation. All these little steps were very helpful for her to get her life back on track.
Till this day, there are people who want to keep this topic hushed away and they think if such problem comes out in open, it will not be a good thing. The fact its, with time people are becoming more intelligent and they like talking about problems and issues so you should try to contribute as much as you can.
It can take a very long time for you to recount your story after such an episode yet you ought to never feel embarrassed about yourself since it was not something that happened as a result of you or you were not to blame. You will experience numerous stages of recovery and there will be a time when you would start to learn and trust others all over again. Assault can't characterize your identity it was only a terrible incident or even of your life however its over now.
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