It is not strange for people to lose focus on the goals at some point in their lives. Some give up their dreams while others still keep on fighting until they accomplish their aspirations. The latter leave legacies that live long after they are gone while the memories of the former soon vanish after their death. The good news is that as long as you have breath within you, you can still turn your life around and achieve various goals. This guide comes with useful tips to help you change the present trajectory of your destiny.
Assess the situation you are in and establish what is not working the way it should. Here you make a deliberate effort list down everything that touches on you. Being sincere to yourself, identify what is not working the way you would have wanted it to. Against each item, write down what you would like t to achieve.
Avoid focus on things that you have control over. For example, do not weigh yourself down because of the past or compare yourself with others. Everybody has their own race to run and if you focus on others, you will live a life of competition and miss out on your purpose. Therefore acknowledge the present situation and make a resolution to make it right.
Some people are quick to blame others for their misfortunes. Unfortunately, in as much as third-parties may influence their actions, there is always a personal responsibility to every decision they make. It is true that even in the midst of the worst peer pressure you can stand up and say no to things that can destroy your destiny.
Resolve within yourself only do things that are beneficial and quit the habit of pleasing people by doing what they want. This may mean that you break ties with some of the close allies but it is better than failing to achieve certain goals in life. Start by making small changes in life by doing the right things. As you shed-off bad habits one by one, you will soon overcome most of the challenges you face.
Beware of distraction that will come your way, especially at the beginning of your transformation journey. Most of the former associates will ridicule you and brand you a traitor, especially if you were into drugs and crime. It could even be the urge to achieve more within a short time. The danger of pushing yourself too hard is that when results are not forthcoming as quickly as you would like, you may begin to doubt yourself.
Do not be afraid to try new things or even be afraid of falling. This is because even failing is part of winning as you get to learn. However, always take actions that well thought over to avoid making obvious mistakes.
To prevent you from sliding back to mediocrity, surround yourself with right people. These should be real people who you share common interests with. Build strong relationships with people you can trust and share dreams with. Moreover, focus on having friends whom you look up to as mentors and even other below you. This means that as you are being changed, you are also impacting others positively.
Assess the situation you are in and establish what is not working the way it should. Here you make a deliberate effort list down everything that touches on you. Being sincere to yourself, identify what is not working the way you would have wanted it to. Against each item, write down what you would like t to achieve.
Avoid focus on things that you have control over. For example, do not weigh yourself down because of the past or compare yourself with others. Everybody has their own race to run and if you focus on others, you will live a life of competition and miss out on your purpose. Therefore acknowledge the present situation and make a resolution to make it right.
Some people are quick to blame others for their misfortunes. Unfortunately, in as much as third-parties may influence their actions, there is always a personal responsibility to every decision they make. It is true that even in the midst of the worst peer pressure you can stand up and say no to things that can destroy your destiny.
Resolve within yourself only do things that are beneficial and quit the habit of pleasing people by doing what they want. This may mean that you break ties with some of the close allies but it is better than failing to achieve certain goals in life. Start by making small changes in life by doing the right things. As you shed-off bad habits one by one, you will soon overcome most of the challenges you face.
Beware of distraction that will come your way, especially at the beginning of your transformation journey. Most of the former associates will ridicule you and brand you a traitor, especially if you were into drugs and crime. It could even be the urge to achieve more within a short time. The danger of pushing yourself too hard is that when results are not forthcoming as quickly as you would like, you may begin to doubt yourself.
Do not be afraid to try new things or even be afraid of falling. This is because even failing is part of winning as you get to learn. However, always take actions that well thought over to avoid making obvious mistakes.
To prevent you from sliding back to mediocrity, surround yourself with right people. These should be real people who you share common interests with. Build strong relationships with people you can trust and share dreams with. Moreover, focus on having friends whom you look up to as mentors and even other below you. This means that as you are being changed, you are also impacting others positively.
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